Harry's Daughter

The Story

Named for Harry.

A gastropub born from love, memory, and the flavors of Trinidad and Tobago.

“Threading a fine line between relaxed and refined.”

Established

2017

Location

Bergen-Lafayette Jersey City, NJ

Experience

30+ years combined NYC hospitality

Harry's Daughter is named for Harry Ramkissoon, Ria's father, who raised her on an island where food was the language of love.

Growing up in Trinidad and Tobago, Ria Ramkissoon learned hospitality the way most people learn a first language: by osmosis, by watching, by tasting. She grew up living above her parents' garment factory, trimming loose threads by age five and making her own garments soon after; by nine, she was baking and decorating her own birthday cakes. Food and design were never separate conversations for her. They were always the same one.

After years as a fashion designer (FIT-educated, featured in Glamour, Essence, and Women's Wear Daily, a TEDx talk in Port of Spain), Ria made a deliberate turn. Not away from beauty, but toward a different kind of it, bringing that designer's eye and storyteller's instinct to Bergen-Lafayette.

Her partner in this is Alasdair Cotter, who grew up living above his family's pub in West Cork, Ireland, pulling pints from the age of 11. After studying acting in Italy and Dublin, he spent more than a decade in New York City's most demanding hospitality rooms before building a bar program that takes the tropics seriously: technically precise, deeply flavorful, never kitschy.

Together, they built a place that feels like a secret you want to share. The kind of restaurant that a neighborhood deserves, and rarely gets.

The People

The Founders

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Ria Ramkissoon

Co-Founder · Food, Design & Front of House

Ria is from Trinidad and Tobago, and she’ll tell you that fact explains nearly everything about Harry’s Daughter: the food, the warmth, the room, the way a meal here feels like being welcomed into someone’s home.

Her relationship with making things started almost as soon as she could hold a pair of scissors. Ria grew up living above her parents’ garment factory in Trinidad, so fabric, clothing and the process of making things were woven into the rhythm of her everyday life from childhood. Her first “job,” at around five years old, was downstairs in the factory trimming loose threads from finished garments. Soon after, she was making her first garment herself.

That instinct to create wasn’t limited to fabric. By nine, she was baking and decorating her own birthday cake. Food and design have been part of the same conversation for her ever since.

A graduate of FIT, Ria spent years as a fashion designer before making the move to hospitality. Her work has appeared in Glamour, Essence, and Women’s Wear Daily, and she has given a TEDx talk in Port of Spain. She designed the woven basket lights hanging overhead at Harry’s Daughter, handmade by visually impaired artisans in Trinidad.

Everything you notice when you walk in (from the Ghislaine Viñas wallpaper to the particular quality of calm in a full room) carries that same thread: food, fashion, design and hospitality were never separate worlds for Ria. They were simply different ways of creating something for people.

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Alasdair Cotter

Co-Founder · Bar & Hospitality

Alasdair came to bartending the old-fashioned way: apprenticed, trained, and humbled by the craft. He grew up living above his family’s pub in West Cork, Ireland, so the bar wasn’t simply the family business; it was woven into the rhythm of daily Irish country living. From the age of 11, he was pulling pints and learning the traditions of hospitality firsthand.

His grandfather’s business was more than a pub. There was also a shop and a petrol pump: all part of the fabric of rural community life, where people came for what they needed, caught up on the news, shared a story, and often stayed for the conversation. Hospitality, community and looking after people weren’t lessons Alasdair was taught later in life; they were simply how he grew up.

After studying acting in Italy and Dublin, Alasdair made his way to New York City, where he spent more than a decade working in its restaurant industry, one of the toughest proving grounds in hospitality anywhere.

At Harry’s Daughter, his bar program celebrates Caribbean flavors without turning them into gimmicks. Every cocktail has a story and a purpose. The Trinidad Sour. The Queen’s Park Swizzle. The Tamarind Ball. These aren’t themed drinks; they’re proper cocktails that happen to taste like the islands.

He brings the same philosophy to front-of-house hospitality. If you’ve ever had your water topped up before you realized it was low, or felt genuinely looked after without knowing exactly why, you’ve experienced the kind of service Alasdair has spent three decades perfecting.

For Alasdair, great hospitality is almost invisible. You shouldn’t have to ask for it or even notice it happening; you should simply feel looked after.

Interiors

A room designed with intent.

The Wallpaper

Designed by Ghislaine Viñas, a celebrated Negherland born, South African raised designer known for bold, geometric pattern work. The wallpaper wraps the room in a tropical pattern that feels simultaneously opulent and intimate.

The Basket Lights

Designed by Ria herself and handwoven in Port of Spain by artisans who are visually impaired. Each pendant is one of a kind. They cast the room in a warm, honeyed light that no chandelier could replicate.

The Philosophy

Ria designed this space the way she once designed clothing: with a clear point of view, nothing wasted, every detail in service of how the person inside it would feel. Comfortable. Seen. Somewhere worth being.

As Seen In

Press & Recognition

Insider.com

“The Best Wings in Every State”

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Glamour

“Featured for design and vision”

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Essence

“A space and story worth knowing”

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Women's Wear Daily

“Ria Ramkissoon, from fashion to food”

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TEDx Port of Spain

“Ria Ramkissoon, speaker”

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